L'AFFRONTEMENT
Par sandrine onnis le mardi, mars 23 2010, 14:47 - mot du mardi - Lien permanent
Peut-être devrai-je parler de non-affrontement dans la mesure ou j'essaie de proposer à mes enfants une autre relation que celle de l'affrontement.
J'ai fait le choix de mettre des mots sur mes gestes, sur mes sentiments et de les dire tout haut à ma tribu dans l'espoir que mes enfants adoptent également cette attitude. Chacun connait ainsi l'autre dans ce qu'il aime, ce qu'il d"este, ce qui le rend triste ou au contraire très heureux.
Cela n'évite pas tous les conflits car il faudrait pouvoir à chaque instant exprimer ses sentiments en restant le plus neutre possible, sans tenir compte de l'effet émotionnel, ce qui est impossible je pense, mais cela permet à nos relations d'évoluer, sans être figées ni stigmatisées dans des problèmes sans solution.
Très souvent, formuler ses sentiments permet de minimiser l'affrontement qui néanmoins reste nécessaire aux ados pour se construire mais qui ne deviendra pas un mode de fonctionnement permanent pour autant.
Sandrine Onnis
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